Category Archive: life after divorce

The Path That Appears

On our recent trip to the mountains, we were jolted out of sleep by Rowan who was overcome by a sudden stomach virus. We were in an unfamiliar place without the comforts of… Continue reading

Grown

I just completed four nights of an incredibly transformative free-writing class with Heather of The Extraordinary Ordinary. This was our one homework assignment. Ten minutes of writing with no editing. Start from a… Continue reading

An Invested Rhythm

We sat together, a row of unlikely patrons. A jumbled managerie of kids, step-kids, biological parents, step-parents, and significant others. And for once, it didn’t feel strained; maybe we’ve all found a comfortable… Continue reading

Mazes

I looked up. The symmetrical tops of the corn stalks swayed gently. The breeze carried them left and right in a comforting, consistent rhythm. They stretched several feet above my head, arched towards… Continue reading

Home

The first time I traveled by myself to a new place was New Year’s weekend of 2005. I packed up my leaky Jeep Wrangler and headed through the rain to a Buddhist retreat… Continue reading

Fullness

“We must let go of the life we’ve planned, so as to accept the one that’s waiting for us.” Joseph Campbell ***** I sat on the bench on our deck watching my two… Continue reading

Perfectly Imperfect

I was treading water about 200 meters into the race last weekend. Despite an edge of confidence from a good warmup, suddenly my breathing was shallow, raspy. I was flailing and had to… Continue reading

You Can Do It

You can do it! Old school The Offspring resonated in my head as I crossed the timing mat at the start of the 10k Turkey Trot on Thanksgiving. My goal- a sub hour… Continue reading

What They Will Remember

I caught a glimpse of myself in the mirror as I gave Pacey a hug last night. Sometimes it surprises me that I am old enough to be a mom. Sometimes I feel… Continue reading